day ten

Day 10: What do you look for in a guy/girl?

PERSONALITY QUALITIES

so ever since I have been living I have ALWAYS, (and when I say always I really do mean it) but anyways I alwayssss have put the ability to make me laugh as number one. Every list I have ever had to make when teachers in seminary or adult roles or team or whatev said “make a list of qualities you look for in a spouse/boyfriend” sense of humor was ALWAYS number one. Seriously. Who wants to be with someone who wont make you laugh your guts off? Not me. so I can honestly say the past real dating experiences (there have only been like 4) I have had all of them were so funny and just my kind of humor. Super witty, sarcastic and just random.

I love when people can be silly and random and just want to have fun and be super duper spontaneous. I hate when people just sit around and are lame sauces on life. hate it.

I try to pay extra close attention to the intentions of peoples hearts. it’s a super good thing if I can look at them and realize that they are willing to help others and hope for the best for whoever they may run into.

someone who is smart , I'm not asking for a rocket scientist but sense of direction, modivation and goals  never hurt anyone.

friendly. who wants to be with a lame-o who cant even hold a conversation with me or anyone for more than 5 minutes? (my hand isn’t up)

I know this sounds way weird but someone who’s passionate about music. I am always listening to my tunes. I wake up to them, shower to them, get ready to them, listen to them in my car, while walking to class, etc. so I love when people like all different varieties of music so then its like when my ipod meets their ipod its like music fusion and its always fun to bounce songs off of people!

Being a hard worker never hurt a soul, as far as I have heard. I like when I can tell that a person works for what they have. Someone who can have goals and work towards them while being committed is hard and takes practice but I love when I can tell someone is ambitious and knows that working hard for things pays off. 

PHYSICAL QUALITIES

I don’t care who you are, everyone wants to be attracted to the person they date or marry or whatev. I have always had a type, and some of the people ive dated haven’t fit under my standar “type” although they were fun they just weren’t really the typical look I go for… most have though! Hahah so here are things that are ultra plus’s for me..

-long hair. Love it

-dark hair is always what I have gone for in the past for the most part

-taller then I am (which isn’t a hard thing to come by)

-awesome smile is a good thing to have. (white teeth and straight  are what help make it amazing)

-skinny-ish is always appreciated

-scruff is so sexy. Love it. Love it. Love it forever

-I love when boys look like they don’t care. I know this is weird but I go crazzzy for boys with beanies, skinny jeans, and just like a whatever shirt and jacket and like a di shopper always will have an automatic place in my heart.

So to sum all that up pretty much a snowboard bum, or like skaterish, or indieish, and pretty much someone who looks like they smoke a whole lotta weed (not saying they do but just someone who looks like they do have always appealed to this girl.) I dunno how to explain it. Hahaha but yeah. Love it.